Saturday, July 8, 2017

Sky, sea and dreams

This Mangalagiri saree was Amma's gift for Prajnya's inaugural meeting, a nod to the Prajnya logo colours. I have since worn it for many Prajnya gatherings. 

So very simple

This is one of the first sarees I ever owned. We bought it in Bombay, when I was in class X, so around 1978-79, from an itinerant Bengal saree merchant.

They would fan out around the country, carrying a mammoth bundle of tightly packed sarees on their back and patiently unfolding and repacking each of them. The saree-seller's patience was infinite and the sales talk was almost non-existent. "Just see one," they would start, then roll out a hundred sarees, and finally, you would buy a few. The sarees we bought from this guy have lasted decades.

In my teens and into my twenties, I wore a lot of white and very, very simple sarees. This was typical of what I would choose for myself, and I had a cream puffed sleeve blouse stitched. I wore these to my school farewell--does that tell you something about who I have been in my life?

I might no longer choose this saree but I treasure it for the memories it holds. I would not choose it because I now rarely wear white or off-white, having developed some anxiety about staining and dropping tea or coffee on them. And I might not choose this now because I might combine those colours in a border. But at 14 or 15, I thought it was simply beautiful and utterly elegant. And that memory makes it one of the most treasured sarees in my wardrobe.


Sky, sea and dreams

This Mangalagiri saree was Amma's gift for Prajnya's inaugural meeting, a nod to the Prajnya logo colours. I have since worn it fo...